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		<title>Comment on Down that road by Hafiz</title>
		<link>http://getoutlines.wordpress.com/2012/09/29/down-that-road/#comment-2307</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Mar 2013 11:45:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[That&#039;s a wonderful post in your blog. Thanks for sharing.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s a wonderful post in your blog. Thanks for sharing.</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Summary of Recent Stoniness by parallel</title>
		<link>http://getoutlines.wordpress.com/2009/09/29/a-summary-of-recent-stoniness/#comment-2275</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[parallel]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Feb 2013 12:08:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Assalamu Alaikum Sister Safiya,

What brother/sister Gand has mentioned is actually a problem of &#039;Nafs&#039;, as gut feelings or ones instincts are often rooted in &#039;desire&#039;. 
I get Sh. Nuh&#039;s spiritual and intellectual teachings, but I don&#039;t understand why he charges such a premium for his knowlege - the knowledge that Allah Subhanahu wa&#039;Taala has given him. Alhamdulilahi Rabill&#039;alamin. 
Essentialy he is cutting off the lesser paying Muslims from the tariqa&#039;s learning materials, who in most circumstances are way more pious and desirious of Allah Subhanahu wa&#039;Taala then their better-fed brethren.

I think the problem might reside in trying to fulfill or orchestrate certain aspects of the physical desires of the nafs on the basis or subtle technicalities of fiqh; as I have mentioned him criticise the tariqa of Imam a&#039;-Ghazzali, saying that &quot;we of the Shadhili Tariqa don&#039;t break off the head of the nafs ...we allow it what is permissible to the extent of Shariah&quot;.

I haven&#039;t made my way through all the Suhba recordings, but I personally found the Virgina Suhba to be quite informative, and definitely felt a transmition of &#039;noor&#039; or barka in a very abstract way after coming in association with the Sheikh&#039;s teachings. Definitely an Iman-booster and a window into the subtleties of the Ruh and the higher spiritual states during Salah.

Anyhow, that&#039;s just my two cents, but after reading these posts I probably will never go to Kharebsheh, act upon any marriage advice, or give Bayah until I have analyzed all the Tariqa learning materials and audio recordings on the basis of the Quran and Sunnah. 

Jazak Allah Khair

sincerest rgrds,
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Assalamu Alaikum Sister Safiya,</p>
<p>What brother/sister Gand has mentioned is actually a problem of &#8216;Nafs&#8217;, as gut feelings or ones instincts are often rooted in &#8216;desire&#8217;.<br />
I get Sh. Nuh&#8217;s spiritual and intellectual teachings, but I don&#8217;t understand why he charges such a premium for his knowlege &#8211; the knowledge that Allah Subhanahu wa&#8217;Taala has given him. Alhamdulilahi Rabill&#8217;alamin.<br />
Essentialy he is cutting off the lesser paying Muslims from the tariqa&#8217;s learning materials, who in most circumstances are way more pious and desirious of Allah Subhanahu wa&#8217;Taala then their better-fed brethren.</p>
<p>I think the problem might reside in trying to fulfill or orchestrate certain aspects of the physical desires of the nafs on the basis or subtle technicalities of fiqh; as I have mentioned him criticise the tariqa of Imam a&#8217;-Ghazzali, saying that &#8220;we of the Shadhili Tariqa don&#8217;t break off the head of the nafs &#8230;we allow it what is permissible to the extent of Shariah&#8221;.</p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t made my way through all the Suhba recordings, but I personally found the Virgina Suhba to be quite informative, and definitely felt a transmition of &#8216;noor&#8217; or barka in a very abstract way after coming in association with the Sheikh&#8217;s teachings. Definitely an Iman-booster and a window into the subtleties of the Ruh and the higher spiritual states during Salah.</p>
<p>Anyhow, that&#8217;s just my two cents, but after reading these posts I probably will never go to Kharebsheh, act upon any marriage advice, or give Bayah until I have analyzed all the Tariqa learning materials and audio recordings on the basis of the Quran and Sunnah. </p>
<p>Jazak Allah Khair</p>
<p>sincerest rgrds,<br />
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		<title>Comment on Down that road by Wonder</title>
		<link>http://getoutlines.wordpress.com/2012/09/29/down-that-road/#comment-2202</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Wonder]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Dec 2012 21:32:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[That&#039;s a lovely post. It is real, practical and sensible.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s a lovely post. It is real, practical and sensible.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Down that road by MK</title>
		<link>http://getoutlines.wordpress.com/2012/09/29/down-that-road/#comment-2167</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MK]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2012 12:50:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Salaam Safiya,

What a lovely post! Sensible, confident, great advice and not a downer. Most refreshing!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Salaam Safiya,</p>
<p>What a lovely post! Sensible, confident, great advice and not a downer. Most refreshing!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Down that road by The White Pumpkin</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[The White Pumpkin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Sep 2012 01:56:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[well put.. :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well put.. <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on 4 Years Later&#8230; by Safiya Outlines</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Safiya Outlines]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Sep 2012 01:49:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Tunde,

I thought your post was worthy of a bigger answer, so I&#039;ve written a post in response.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tunde,</p>
<p>I thought your post was worthy of a bigger answer, so I&#8217;ve written a post in response.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 4 Years Later&#8230; by Tunde</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Tunde]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Sep 2012 00:33:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Please how far have you been pleased in Islam. I want to know before i enter into it.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Please how far have you been pleased in Islam. I want to know before i enter into it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Scribbles not Outlines 6 &#8211; Olympic Special by 4 Years Later… « Outlines</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[4 Years Later… « Outlines]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2012 04:46:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...]   To all you non-U.K readers, I will let you in on a little secret: The country as a whole is absolute... [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...]   To all you non-U.K readers, I will let you in on a little secret: The country as a whole is absolute&#8230; [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on And there&#8217;s a storm that&#8217;s raging. by ali la loca</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[ali la loca]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2012 05:15:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[really well stated, my friend. just catching up over here. miss you!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>really well stated, my friend. just catching up over here. miss you!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Rejecting the Pretending to be Amish in The Name of Piety stuff by Ify Okoye</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ify Okoye]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Aug 2012 08:14:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Safiya, I have a lot of issues with the image of the ideal Muslim man and woman that is pushed by conservative elements. Looking back, the only real position of honor is that of a man who has studied Islam or Arabic usually overseas. A throwaway nod is given here and there to women especially those who sacrifice themselves for their husbands and children and stay-at-home raising their children.

The hyperreligious piety pretense is insidious and creeps up on you in certain communities. As a convert, I didn&#039;t realize that nearly everyone was just keeping up appearances as I really tried to live my Islam to the nth degree, always trying to do the maximum. I was shocked when I began to realize how unrealistic or harmful that was and how many of the people pushing that utopian understanding weren&#039;t living that reality.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Safiya, I have a lot of issues with the image of the ideal Muslim man and woman that is pushed by conservative elements. Looking back, the only real position of honor is that of a man who has studied Islam or Arabic usually overseas. A throwaway nod is given here and there to women especially those who sacrifice themselves for their husbands and children and stay-at-home raising their children.</p>
<p>The hyperreligious piety pretense is insidious and creeps up on you in certain communities. As a convert, I didn&#8217;t realize that nearly everyone was just keeping up appearances as I really tried to live my Islam to the nth degree, always trying to do the maximum. I was shocked when I began to realize how unrealistic or harmful that was and how many of the people pushing that utopian understanding weren&#8217;t living that reality.</p>
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